Obituary of Jenna R. Herbst

NORWALK, CONN Jenna Herbst died early this morning, after a brief illness from a very aggressive abdominal cancer. She was 50 years old. Westporters will recognize her smiling face from her life around town. She attended many Staples High School sports games and matches, Staples Players shows and community events, and enjoyed Friday evening dinners at the Little Barn with her companion Laura Blair. Jenna and Laura were a team for over 40 years. Jenna had Lennox Gestalt Syndrome, a genetic condition. It resulted in a seizure disorder and intellectual disability. She attended Westport Public Schools. After graduating from Staples in 1996, Jenna attended the day program at Star Inc., and lived in her family home until she was 27. At that time she moved to her own apartment in the Hidden Brook townhouse complex in Westport, near Stop & Shop. She was supported there for 20 years by wonderful caregivers, who helped her throughout the day. Jenna attended the Star day program during that period as well. In 2023 she joined 4 others in the Ryan House group home in Norwalk, administered by Star, where an incredibly caring staff supported her needs. Jenna had a smile that lit up the room. She had a strong personality and was a great communicator, despite being non-verbal. She had an excellent sense of humor and particularly loved slapstick, often at the expense of her family, friends and caregivers. Jenna loved music too, and growing up was drawn to the piano at home and school. Her demeanor, spirit and resilience, along with the support of her parents and caregivers, enabled her to be a pioneer at a time when people with intellectual disabilities were just just beginning to be more integrated into mainstream society. The main goal for Jenna was to be “on the go.” Her active participation in the community was important to her, and she was a visible, much-appreciated and included presence throughout Westport. Through the efforts of her family, along with support from the Department of Developmental Services and Star Inc., she lived a full and happy life. She is survived by her parents, Mickey and Candace Herbst of Westport; brothers David and Jon; sisters-in-law Joy and Jill; nephews Ari, Ben and Henry, and niece Sage, all of Fairfield. A private graveside service will be held at Willowbrook Cemetery, Westport. Shiva will be observed on Tuesday, March 3 (4 to 8 p.m., Birchwood Country Club). Donations made be made in Jenna’s memory to Star Inc. The Abraham Green & Son Funeral Home of Fairfield is directing the arrangements.